rogueleaderx asked: so im seeing this girl and we have been going out for a long time like 2 almost 3 years we moved in together a few months ago and its been a lot of really dumb fights and picking at each other. We dont have sex like we use to because I am not in the greatest health and it hard for me to keeping going becausese I get really hot there is nothing I can do about that so I try ty to please her in other ways. But I feel there is a bigger problem and I want us to work but I am gettin g to a point hwere Im just like fuck it. Lets just break up especially since we have to move already since our roommates are moving to another location already. what should I do

Don’t you ever feel like giving up if you still feel for this girl and I know you have feelings for her otherwise you wouldn’t have asked someone for advice. Relationships aren’t about sex; sex is only one part of love and there are many other ways to express feelings for another.

It seems there may be bigger problems if you are picking at each other; maybe you two were not ready to live together. The best advice I can give you is to sit down and have a talk with her. Let everything out while she listens and then listen to her in return spill everything out too - that’s the only way you’ll actually get somewhere.

Whenever you feel lost, communication is the key. I hope you work things out and come to a mutual decision.