Anonymous asked: My girlfriend is too pretty for me and I find myself asking her not to wear certain things. I don't like going out because she attracts a lot of attention ans I can't help but think it's her fault. I think if I'm a little more lenient, I'll lose her. Help!

Clearly if your girlfriend is a real stunner then she is going to attract admiring glances; you have to live with it. Most people like to be admired and she is probably no different. There is nothing wrong with that and you should certainly not try to stop her dressing as she pleases. 

Just because she likes to attract a bit of attention, that doesn’t mean she is advertising that she is ‘in the market’. If you don’t know her well enough to be able to trust your relationship then you are going to have a miserable life - overweening jealousy is a very negative influence in relationships.

Don’t let stupid fear & paranoia spoil your life. Enjoy the moment and unless you have some proof your girlfriend is looking elsewhere, you should trust what she says. You either need to learn to trust her and take the admiring glances in the same way she does (as a compliment) nothing more. If jealousy doesn’t make you want to run away, it will eventually make your girlfriend run away from you.