Anonymous asked: so me and this boy pretty much know that we are going to be together but we dont date because we know that its dumb at this age . im 15 & he is 17 .
soo i read the book The 5 Love Languages and figured out that my language is quality time and his is physical touch .
now, i dont mind touchig and stuff but im only 15 and i dont want to be inappropriate .
so what im asking is how to express physical love with out crossing the inappropriate line . ??
Expressing physical love without crossing the line is a question only you can answer. Just do what makes you comfortable, no more than that. Don’t ever feel like you have to step up your game for someone or try harder for them; you do what makes you feel good and if he respects you, he will not ask or pressure you for any more than what you’re ready to give.
Something to remember is, that just because his language may be physical touch, it doesn’t mean you have to get physical with him. Books like the 5 Love Languages are usually targeted towards adults and at your age, I wouldn’t worry too much about it other than just enjoying yourself with your boy. Do what feels right for you and you’ll always make the right decision :)
Saturday Nov 11 @ 08:44pm