Anonymous asked: Hey. So... I have an interesting situation. My female friend, who i have been friends with for years, and I recently got intimate. We normally just meet up for drinks or dinner or what not. Usually both her and I are seeing someone, so it is not weird when we meet up. We always have fun, and laugh. I took her to a wedding and we hooked up. She told me that she 'really liked me' before we hooked up. I asked her on a date, and she declined. What is up?

Things might be moving fast for her. If you like her, I would suggest still being there for her as a friend and to not “push” for anything. If you’re cool like that, she will let you know when she is ready to go on a date with you. For the meanwhile, talk and have fun like you always have and she will appreciate you.