December 2011
1 post
Anonymous asked: im self concious and worried about how people view me. always act as if someone is watching me. get nervous when i talk to someone i'm attracted to. im 18 never had sex. i'm pretty happy, but maybe its time i met someone special. oh i havn't had a gf in 8 years or so. yeah. needed to get it off my chest. thanks!
November 2011
3 posts
Anonymous asked: My girlfriend seems to need a lot of time to herself. I feel a little jealous when she sees her friends more than me at times also. Is it normal for her to want to be apart from me, because all I want to do is be with her?
Anonymous asked: There's this guy that I'm good friends with and I really like him. He told me we when first started talking how he doesn't want to date anyone this year. We talk on the phone every night now for a couple of hours, joking around about how we're getting married and having kids when we're on the phone and all that cute stuff. A couple days ago he started becoming more sexual...
October 2011
1 post
Anonymous asked: Hey. So... I have an interesting situation. My female friend, who i have been friends with for years, and I recently got intimate. We normally just meet up for drinks or dinner or what not. Usually both her and I are seeing someone, so it is not weird when we meet up. We always have fun, and laugh. I took her to a wedding and we hooked up. She told me that she 'really liked me'...
September 2011
3 posts
Anonymous asked: So there's his guy who I like.He's in my Science class.Me & my friend were talking when he suddenly interrupted & said,"will you go out with me?".I stayed silent for 5 seconds & turned to my friend again & said,"okay, where were we?". then he looked at his friend & said, "She said yes. She's my girlfriend now." In Guitar class,he...
Anonymous asked: I like this guy from my old school but all I'm asking is if I should pursue. Before, I've come across guys who only thought of me as a friend, were using me or liked one of my friends. I'm not exaggerating sadly, but it's true. This guy really means alot to me and could brighten up my days but I'm honestly scared of ending up heartbroken again. I'm afraid if I keep...
Anonymous asked: why isn`t this blog active anymore? :(
July 2011
2 posts
Anonymous asked: I'm trying to decide whether or not this guy is interested in me. Here's the last message he sent me tonight: "Well, this crazy half will have to go to sleep now. I will wish the perfect half a pleasant night's sleep and wonderful dreams. I hope all goes your way, Rachel. :)"
Do you think he's interested, or just being nice?
Do you think he's interested, or just being nice?
Anonymous asked: me and my ex love each other, we broke up three weeks ago and became close friends. we still talk and sleep on the phone with each other. he said he wants to be friends now and be in a relationship maybe later again. he doesn't wanna be with someone else but he said in between he'd maybe fuck other people. what would you do ? would you still wanna be with him later on or just move on and...
June 2011
7 posts
Anonymous asked: I've been in a relationship for a year and three months. The first several months we were comitted but without the titles. Then we started going out later on. We broke up recently. Since we both don't have cars, all we can really do is go to each other houses. All of his friends only care about is smoking weed & fucking bitches. So sometimes he always around girls and I'm kinda...
Anonymous asked: Eight years ago I got into a relationship and I've been trying to get out ever since then... a month ago I started seeing someone and I know I have to get out of my relationship. The only thing is, do I trust this boy? Do I believe him? He looks me directly in the eyes and tells me he's never felt like this, but he's about to graduate from the college and move 16 hours away back...
Anonymous asked: I love this guy for about 4 years i think he's my first love when i was in my first yr highschool i already know that he knows i like him and he keep flirting on me..that flirting stuff stop for about two years because were not that close anymore. And now i'm on my fourth yr he started flirting me again not just that, last february he kissed me, after that he started texting and...
Anonymous asked: Lately my friends have been telling me that a lot of people find me rude and annoying. I suppose they're right - I constantly criticize, ask too many questions, and invade personal space. I hadn't realized until my friends brought it up that I was this bad. I want to stop being like this and fix the way these people view me. Here's the part I'd like your advice on: There's...
Anonymous asked: HELLOW , I LOVE A GIRL SINCE 1 YEAR ,AND SHE TOO , BUT THE PROBLEM IS EVERY TIME I HAVE TO CALL HER FIRST SHE DOES'NT I DONT KNOW WHY . IS SHE LOVE ANYMORE ?
Anonymous asked: So, a guy has a crush on me. But I don't like him. He's really sweet and nice to me, though. And my friends are in favour of him. But the thing is... I don't like him. I don't think I can ever bring myself to. Also, I don't want to be in a relationship yet. I just want to be a teen and have fun without worrying about guys. Do you think I'm making a bad choice? Because...
March 2011
1 post
Anonymous asked: Leave this blog make a new one or it will be the last thing you ever wished
February 2011
9 posts
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Anonymous asked: I like this older guy that I see every so often, but he's a LOT older. What do I do? :/
“I know you’re lonely; I think you need someone to want you. Well I do want...”
Anonymous asked: How do I meet new people. I'm going through a break up with an ex that seems to keep going on and off. I work a lot of hours and have night classes.. Often finding myself feeling hopeless and depressed I'm stuck in a cycle that I think could end up to me being single forever. I've never even approached a girl and not self confident at all. I lock up at thinking about trying to...
Top 10 List Of Relationship Do’s And Don’ts
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1. Pay attention to your partner, without giving her any advice.
2. Believe in her and value her.
3. Consider her your equal in the relationship.
4. Stand by her whenever she needs you.
5. Treat her like you have treated her in the beginning of your relationship.
6. Little things do make a difference and women really appreciate them.
7. Respect the arrangements that you have made...
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So how do you let go of someone who has done nothing wrong? Let’s face it, relationships sometimes tend to lose their spark. Things may not be as exciting as they first were or you don’t feel as impressed with your partner anymore. It’s human nature for life to move on and sometimes life’s obstacles get in the way of a normal relationship, whether it be a career change,...
Anonymous asked: how do i get her to notice me?
January 2011
1 post
nice-girl asked: There's this guy who I thought liked me, but I found out he had a girlfriend. I figured he was just really nice, but everytime I'm around him I still feel like he likes me. He does things like ruffle my hair and tickle me and remember random things I said. Whenever he high-fives me he hits my hand like seven times and then slides his hand off mine slowly... O.O I watched him high-five...
December 2010
6 posts
Love is being with someone because you want to, and that includes wanting all the decisions they make, their views and opinions, their choice of lifestyle.
Love isn’t about changing someone to fit your needs, control who they see, criticize about what they wear or forbid them from going places.
Love is knowing you set that person free, and every time, they still came back home to you. This...
Anonymous asked: Just wanted to say that I really appreciate your devotion to giving GOOD advice. Everything you say is just objective enough to be logical, and just personally-directed enough to be helpful. It's nice to know a normal person exists who is not on either polarity of "love is the greatest oo love love love love can conquer death and evil oo love" or "love doesn't exist."...
Anonymous asked: im in love still with my ex. i know things are over with us but its like i can't get over her. Some reason all i do is think about her. i don't want her back though. dont have a reason why i love her so much. How can i forget about her and move on?
rogueleaderx asked: so im seeing this girl and we have been going out for a long time like 2 almost 3 years we moved in together a few months ago and its been a lot of really dumb fights and picking at each other. We dont have sex like we use to because I am not in the greatest health and it hard for me to keeping going becausese I get really hot there is nothing I can do about that so I try ty to please her in other...
Anonymous asked: Is it weird that I often like guys younger than me? Three times I have had a significant crush on a younger guy, sometimes two years younger. I know a relationship wouldn't work out in any of these cases, considering I will be going to college this year. I'm also aware of the maturity difference. Logically I know nothing can happen at this point in my life but I can't help thinking...
Anonymous asked: My girlfriend is too pretty for me and I find myself asking her not to wear certain things. I don't like going out because she attracts a lot of attention ans I can't help but think it's her fault. I think if I'm a little more lenient, I'll lose her. Help!
November 2010
15 posts
What is the best way for a girl to approach a guy...
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Anonymous asked: so me and this boy pretty much know that we are going to be together but we dont date because we know that its dumb at this age . im 15 & he is 17 .
soo i read the book The 5 Love Languages and figured out that my language is quality time and his is physical touch .
now, i dont mind touchig and stuff but im only 15 and i dont want to be inappropriate .
so what im asking...
soo i read the book The 5 Love Languages and figured out that my language is quality time and his is physical touch .
now, i dont mind touchig and stuff but im only 15 and i dont want to be inappropriate .
so what im asking...
FLIRT
v., flirt·ed, flirt·ing, flirts.v.intr.
To make playfully romantic or sexual overtures.
To deal playfully, triflingly, or superficially with: flirt with danger.
To move abruptly or jerkily.
Flirting is a basic human intinct to show one’s interest in somebody. Not many people find this easy, as flirting is a technique that takes practice to perfect. By showing the right signals of attraction,...
Anonymous asked: hi! well i met this girl last week. its been a while since i've been out so i really wanted to go out and meet new people. i got to talk to her and we really hit it off. we share the same passion for singing and she really caught me by surprise. for the first time in a long while i looked someone deep in their eyes and sang them exactly what i felt at that very moment. i really feel like she...
Anonymous asked: I've liked this guy for three years now and a few months ago I found out he's gay. I know I should get over it, but I'm hopelessly attracted to him. How can I let go of these hopes and move on with my life?
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October 2010
20 posts
Anonymous asked: I have been dating a girl for a little over a year. When we first started, we lived down the street from each other, now she lives 1 hour away of school and we make it work. We both love each other very much. She has been talking about moving somewhere else after school next summer. We both don't want to move in together or get married, we are serious but not too serious. She wants to move...