This blog is dedicated to all those hopeless romantics out there who never stopped believing in love.
Anonymous asked: im self concious and worried about how people view me. always act as if someone is watching me. get nervous when i talk to someone i'm attracted to. im 18 never had sex. i'm pretty happy, but maybe its time i met someone special. oh i havn't had a gf in 8 years or so. yeah. needed to get it off my chest. thanks!
First of all, you need to make a few changes to your life. As uncomfortable as it may be, try jumping at every chance you get (even if you think nothing may come out of it). For example: smile at strangers, make small talk with the person next to you, make it a habit you ask a friend out to coffee every week, etc.
There are endless opportunities to expand your friendship network and build up your self-esteem at the same time. When you get nervous, just think to yourself: “what’s the worst that could happen?” Just take a deep breath and try again. Good luck and just remember, it is never too late to start anything :)
Wednesday Dec 12 @ 10:30pm
Anonymous asked: My girlfriend seems to need a lot of time to herself. I feel a little jealous when she sees her friends more than me at times also. Is it normal for her to want to be apart from me, because all I want to do is be with her?
Personal freedom is very important in relationships, therefore it is vital to find a balance between relationship commitment and time apart. By doing things alone or going out with friends, does not mean that you don’t need one another. It gives you the time to miss the other person, and really value the time you do spend with them.
Sunday Nov 11 @ 12:32amAnonymous asked: There's this guy that I'm good friends with and I really like him. He told me we when first started talking how he doesn't want to date anyone this year. We talk on the phone every night now for a couple of hours, joking around about how we're getting married and having kids when we're on the phone and all that cute stuff. A couple days ago he started becoming more sexual on the phone. Do you think he likes or is starting to like me or is he just flirting with me for the fun of it?
His feelings about dating might have changed, also it’s almost the end of this year so he could be thinking about making you his girlfriend in 2012 :) If you know for a fact that he only behaves that way towards you and is a genuinely nice guy, he likes you. Suss out how he acts around other girls. Only you will know if there is a connection between the two of you. Best of luck!
Sunday Nov 11 @ 12:27amAnonymous asked: Hey. So... I have an interesting situation. My female friend, who i have been friends with for years, and I recently got intimate. We normally just meet up for drinks or dinner or what not. Usually both her and I are seeing someone, so it is not weird when we meet up. We always have fun, and laugh. I took her to a wedding and we hooked up. She told me that she 'really liked me' before we hooked up. I asked her on a date, and she declined. What is up?
Things might be moving fast for her. If you like her, I would suggest still being there for her as a friend and to not “push” for anything. If you’re cool like that, she will let you know when she is ready to go on a date with you. For the meanwhile, talk and have fun like you always have and she will appreciate you.
Monday Oct 10 @ 12:23amAnonymous asked: So there's his guy who I like.He's in my Science class.Me & my friend were talking when he suddenly interrupted & said,"will you go out with me?".I stayed silent for 5 seconds & turned to my friend again & said,"okay, where were we?". then he looked at his friend & said, "She said yes. She's my girlfriend now." In Guitar class,he told my sister that I'm his "wife.He's kind of a goofball,so idk. How will I know if he's serious or not? aside from asking him/ getting a friend to ask him.
It sounds like he likes you, but he is joking around and being a goofball to protect himself. Through saying/doing things like that, its his way of showing you he is interested. If you like him back or think there could be something between the two of you, you should definitely say something. Begin by flirting a little back, see where it takes you. Good luck :)
Thursday Sep 9 @ 10:53pmAnonymous asked: I like this guy from my old school but all I'm asking is if I should pursue. Before, I've come across guys who only thought of me as a friend, were using me or liked one of my friends. I'm not exaggerating sadly, but it's true. This guy really means alot to me and could brighten up my days but I'm honestly scared of ending up heartbroken again. I'm afraid if I keep trying and keep getting to know him, I'll really fall for him. I don't want to get my hopes up and end up sad. What should i do?
You’ll never know if you don’t take a chance. If you truly believe you like this guy and there could potentially be something there, I think you should go for it. Even if you end up broken hearted in the long run, at least you’ll know you tried and can move on with experience. Every relationship is a step closer to finding the one.
Thursday Sep 9 @ 10:49pmAnonymous asked: why isn`t this blog active anymore? :(
We just need people to send in more questions, because there’s not much going on without the followers being active.
Sunday Sep 9 @ 02:37pmAnonymous asked: I'm trying to decide whether or not this guy is interested in me. Here's the last message he sent me tonight: "Well, this crazy half will have to go to sleep now. I will wish the perfect half a pleasant night's sleep and wonderful dreams. I hope all goes your way, Rachel. :)"
Do you think he's interested, or just being nice?
To me, it definitely sounds like he is interested! He called you his perfect half! It also comes down to what you know about the guy, is he caring and genuine or does he have a bit of a reputation being a player? You should always follow your gut instinct about a guy and you won’t go wrong. Let me know how it goes, all the best to you :)
Tuesday Jul 7 @ 03:46pmAnonymous asked: me and my ex love each other, we broke up three weeks ago and became close friends. we still talk and sleep on the phone with each other. he said he wants to be friends now and be in a relationship maybe later again. he doesn't wanna be with someone else but he said in between he'd maybe fuck other people. what would you do ? would you still wanna be with him later on or just move on and be friends ?
Honestly, all I would want to do is be friends with him. It sounds like that’s all he wants too, and if he has discussed it with you, it means he wants you to know the way things are going to be. If it hurts too much being friends with him and knowing he is sleeping with other girls, I would try cutting down communication a little bit and moving on. It’s a shame that you say you guys are in love but aren’t together anymore. Whatever your decision, I wish you the best of luck!
Sunday Jul 7 @ 07:22pmAnonymous asked: I've been in a relationship for a year and three months. The first several months we were comitted but without the titles. Then we started going out later on. We broke up recently. Since we both don't have cars, all we can really do is go to each other houses. All of his friends only care about is smoking weed & fucking bitches. So sometimes he always around girls and I'm kinda scared. I tell him all the time but I trust him I just don't trust them. He wants to be friends and fuck still, and claims that he's not talking to nobody. But the other day, he was talking to someone like how he use to talk to me. He had nudes in his phone. I'm actually in love with him and he's my first, same goes for him. What should I do ?
Move on right now and forget him. You don’t want to end up getting hurt more than you already are now. I know how hard it must be, because he is your first but you have to let him go. Him wanting to be friends but still using you for sex is not a good sign, break it off immediately. Never let a guy have you on the side, every girl deserves much better that this. You can definitely do much better. Good luck!
Friday Jul 7 @ 12:24amAnonymous asked: Eight years ago I got into a relationship and I've been trying to get out ever since then... a month ago I started seeing someone and I know I have to get out of my relationship. The only thing is, do I trust this boy? Do I believe him? He looks me directly in the eyes and tells me he's never felt like this, but he's about to graduate from the college and move 16 hours away back home.. hoping I'll follow suit. But if I do, how long do I wait between leaving my current and going to my new beau? And how do I protect my heart?
Leave your current relationship as soon as possible. Why are you waiting if you know you don’t want to be with him? It’s not fair to have someone on the side while you’re thinking about plans with your new lover. A month is very short and there is no way to know if your new boy will be genuine, it is completely up to you to follow your gut instinct. That being said, you don’t always have to be in a relationship, if someone isn’t right for you, break it off.
Wednesday Jun 6 @ 12:06am